The big day of showing your love comes once in a year, with almost everybody telling you what to gift your Valentine. How about knowing some etiquette, the dos and don’ts starting from smart phone to your dinner date.

DO text sweet nothings.
DO share love notes.
DO take advantage of free apps to plan your romantic evening.
DON’T check your texts and emails at the table.
DON’T text it if it’s better said face-to-face.

Coming on to dinner date, most of us know not to talk with our mouths full or to take manageable bites, but some dining etiquette points can be a bit more nuanced. For instance, how do you order the perfect bottle of wine?

1. Please take my guest’s order first: Polite comments to the server such as ‘Please bring my guest…’ or ‘my guest will order first, please,’ let the server know that you are the host.

2. Sommelier: For a pleasing pairing, tell the sommelier what you like and the entrées you and your date ordered. You can provide an idea of your price range by pointing out 2-3 wines in your price range. The sommelier will stay within those ranges. Don’t say how much you want to spend.

3. Sharing food: Depending on how well you know your date, you may unobtrusively pass a sample of your food on a bread plate before a first bite.

4. Refreshing beverages: Don’t pour yourself a drink first. If there is a carafe of water or beverages on the table, always pour for your date.

5.Napkin knowledge: As the host, place your napkin in your lap first. When excusing you between courses, the napkin is placed on the chair seat soiled side down. At meal’s end, place your loosely folded napkin on the left of your plate. Don’t refold it

The important thing to remember is to show love and appreciation for your loved ones. What a great opportunity to find unique and creative ways to bless them with your kindness, generosity and love.